brown chicken brown cow.

as i'm sure you all know, maintaining a sex life after baby can be quite challenging. first, you have this new baby constantly needing your attention and wearing you out to the point where sex is the last thing on your mind. when you finally do find the time and energy to give it a shot, your lady bits just don't want to cooperate. A LOT went on down there to bring baby into this world which means your body has a lot of recovery to do. and if you're breastfeeding, that bring on a whole separate set of challenges.

well i'm here to tell you, little by little, it does get easier. but you definitely have to work at it. schedule date nights. have a glass of wine to relax. use a ton of water-based lube. and patience...from both you and your partner. it does get easier but now without a little effort.

my little guy just turned 9 months and i am just now getting to the point where i semi-enjoy it. i cried, stressed, just so worried things would never get easier. but i'm here to tell you they do. 

oh, and want to end date night with a little sexy time. check this out.